This time, the topic is quite light! I would better say that it is not a fiction! This write up is actually inspired from a discussion which developed a couple of days back! My friend, who is also working in the same organisation, but located in a different place has asked me about something. He has a crush on his colleague.. All he wanted to know was that how does he need to proceed with it!!! I appreciate the fact that he might have thought am the right person to consult as I have been through a relationship which further developed to a happily ever after wedlock!!
He had a handful of questions in his mind:
1) Do I need to tell her that I have a crush on her?
2) Do I need to express whatever comes in my mind?
3) What if our friendship breaks if I open up?
4) Does she be having a feeling for me at all?
5) How do I know that this is a time pass or serious feeling??
Blah blah blah!!!!
And the questions just took off their wings through the instant messenger that we have!
For a fraction of second, I got totally blank! Will I be able to answer these questions to my friend?
Then, my mind started regaining the stability and the words just flew over the messenger back!
Instead of telling him the answers for the questions that he asked, I just said whatever came into my mind! Am scribbling it down!
#First of all, don’t get carried away by the thought that you have a crush on someone!!
#Sit back and realise whether the feeling is just an infatuation developed out of physical attraction or is there anything beyond that!!
#Be yourself!! You heard me right!! Don’t try to pretend like someone whom you have never thought of, in a hurry to impress the other!!
#Don’t complicate the relationship.. Instead give a space for the other to interact with you and gain an understanding of who you are to them!!
#Don’t get over excited and make the other feel that you are totally crazy for them!!
#Let the magic happen on its own! Don’t attach pacemaker to your feelings and make it end up in a disaster!!
#Stay happy and positive.. Let the positive vibes from you embrace the other and trigger the feeling on them!
#If at all it is not working, just let it go!!!! Don’t cry over the spoilt milk!!! You are wasting your life for someone who is never bothered about it at all!!
#If it works out, stay cool and relaxed.. Let the relationship blossom taking its own time and let it spread the fragrance of love!!!
Though I am not an expert on this matter, I have just said him the things which I believe to be true!!
Hope this would help some of my stranger friends to some extent to keep up their love spirits high!!
